Everybody's got to learn sometime

Dear blory...

Just watched white chicks today with Gracia, sel and her are on a bad patch and we dunno what's gonna come out of it. Maybe this time he'll learn his lesson and stop using the words "break up" like it's some sort of magic word threat. Guys dun ever use these words lightly... dun ever hit a girl, put her down... pls.. make her feel loved.

One thing I've learnt from the movie... haha.. imagine learning something from a chick flick like White Chicks... well, it really just sums up one thing abt guys... that they dun notice enough, make enough effort and even if they think they do, think again.. maybe it's really not what the girl wants. Wining and dining can be fun... pressies and flowers can charm a girl but the important thing is to make a girl feel secured.. feel loved.. feel appreciated.. a sincere compliment or two can go a loooong way..

Know your girl.. i mean.. understand her the way someone special should..
Love your girl the way nobody else can...
Surprise her... do something unpredictable... go out of the way... do something unconditional...
Show her that you're the man...

My dearest man is out lanning with his mates.. again.. like for the umpteenth time in the week. Not that I'm complaining, well.. i'm not around most of the time anyway. It's just kinda irritating when he says he saves most of his free time for me when I'm around.. and the moment the guys go lanning, off he goes! Hmmm.... another weekend comes and goes... sure there'll always be a tomorrow, or next week.

What if it never comes?

Did we make the best of the time together, however short? As of this moment, i dun feel so.

Just once somebody, do something unconditional for the one you love. Isn't that what love's suppose to be?

"Change your heart, look around you
Change your heart, it will astound you
I need your loving like the sunshine
And everybody's gotta learn sometime
Everybody's gotta learn sometime
Everybody's gotta learn sometime"
- Zucchero