On being spontaneous

Being spontaneous is something that not many people can do. Especially in a place like Singapore where everyone's usually too busy minding their own businesses, or either too wary or too self conscious to do something a lil more different. I like being spontaneous. It's like having a plan yet not having a plan. Honestly, methinks that it's actually where all the adventure begins, and life, to me, is all (ok.. not ALL) about experiencing all those adventures.. and mishaps and then laugh about it.

Isn't it almost proven that most of the times, when you plan an outing with a group of frens, it almost always gets canned a day or two before? But hey, when it's spontaneous, just a coupla of peeps making a coupla calls or two, then voila, the gang is there? And I think u have more fun coz there isn't any expectation on how the nite will turn out so everyone just hangs loose...

Wat exactly is my point here?

Well, just that we shouldn't plan too much and just go with the flow. U never know what might hit u when things come unplanned... of coz shit happens too so just take precautions.. (wat-da-hell-am-i-talking-abt???)

Had one hell of a spontaneous date yesterday. But all was good.. haha.. maybe i really am not ready to settle down. Am I? I do, dun i? Hmmmmm.... nicky disagrees... haha.. not that he's here... i can just imagine him saying it. *argh*

Golden rules of being spontaneous...

... plan an outline.. yes, just the outline
... dun expect things to go smoothly
... dun expect.
... be open to suggestions
... be unrealistic (moderately)
... be bold, strong and courageous!! (haha.. go forth and multiply!! *opps*)
... dun say no immediately
... dun take too long to say no... or yes, or whatever floats ur boat.
... go with ur gut feeling. (even though it may be wrong, hey, people make mistakes, no?)
... dun do what u dun wanna do... and do what u wanna do even if nobody does it.
... challenge ur own limitations...
... take responsibility for ur actions and be happy.